In brief, my husband has ignored my intimately for over 5 yrs now despite my best efforts, I really have tried
I have a colleague who’s shown an interest for quiet some time and I’ve felt flattered and have found myself attempting to draw his attention
Just before Christmas we dated sectretly and briefly after work ect He has now indicated he’d like to take our relationship to the next level can’t say I’m not tempted
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Forgot to add he’s 10yrs younger than I
You do know that this isn’t anonymous?
You do know this isn’t anonymous and not sure why you deleted this comment last time.
Gross human. If you’re unhappy then leave, don’t cheat, even if he doesn’t treat you how you want to be treated you don’t cheat.
Your husbands a douche, a guy that “dates” a married woman is a douche, walk away from both, be the better person and don’t be a douche too. You deserve better than both ❤️ Don’t lower your morals or standards for either.
Speaking as someone who cheated on her husband in a similar situation and it turned into a huge mess - DON'T DO IT. End your marriage and get your shit together. Refuse to take your infatuation with the co-worker further. No good can come from this.
It’s time to leave your husband. You aren’t compatible.
You should have broken up with him before you had an affair.
Your own morals will dictate whether or not the new "relationship" develops further, nothing any of us say will have any bearing on that.
At least have the basic decency to end your marriage now.
I've seen men like your colleague at work. Pathetic nobodies that prey on weak women because they don't have what it takes to nab a strong one. Searching for fuck buddies to add to their tally. What are you going to do when it all goes to shit and you end up losing your job because you can't work with him anymore. What about when he bores with you and you have to watch him be with someone else right there in front of you.
Show yourself some respect.
Forget the sex life (or lack of). It’s not an excuse to cheat…. Time to tell your husband you need more from him and support him to find out why this is happening. If you still aren’t happy move on. A sex life is important but you don’t have the right to cheat. Think about your kids and the impact on them? Or were you planning on keeping it on the DL and coming home to them like nothing happened? Sounds like there is no communication… you’ve lost connection and “lack of sex” is your excuse to bail. Not right…
Well your standards are on the floor right now. Couldn’t be lower could they. And you’re not anon, is this the cowards way out? Cry for husband to care? Sort yourself out first, better things will happen.