Could my husband be a suffering a mental health issues or is this something else ?
The last year my husband has started blaming me for everything that goes wrong with absolutely no proof it was actually me that had done anything every time I'm accused that I have done something it's NEVER me every time.
Everything is always my fault and I'm always the blame.
Boxing Day another my fault incidents happened apparently I deleted something of the Foxtel box which I absolutely did not sitting back and thinking it over my husband was the first one that morning up and first one to use the Foxtel box
He believes I deleted it in the middle of the night which I tried to explain I couldn't the tv makes a chime turning it on and would wake everyone up.
I'm starting to believe my husband is behind all this and is deliberately doing stuff, breaking stuff, damaging stuff and blaming me.
He absolutely believes it's 100% me every time and will absolutely not be told otherwise and will not under any circumstances understand or listen it's never me.
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How old is your husband and have you noticed any other odd behaviours? Aggression, forgetfulness or absent mindedness, saying inappropriate things, loss of inhibitions and social awareness - anything at all?
Since this is a relatively recent change, I would say that there's something going on either mentally or physiologically.
He's 45 and no other issues with him
If he isn’t at the start of dimentia or have some medical condition then he is a manipulative prick! Trying to make you feel like you are losing the plot. Strange behaviour. Do a runner
Narcissist Google it and research the patterns. See if you can relate.
Hes trying to make you feel crazy. He is lying, manipulating and gaslighting you. Very toxic behavior. Run. Start seeing a councellor and definitely start recording this all in a diary, because I just about guarantee if you bring it up later he will lie and say that never happened. If you have it written down at the time with exact dates and what happened he won't be able to gaslight you further.