Hi Sisters, just looking for some advice words of encouragement. I am very newly separated, there was cheating involved over the years, took him back, then because of trust issues we just grew apart. Please tell me there is a light at the end of the tunnel. I really can't see it and am having trouble believing I will ever be happy again.
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I wish I could show a glimpse of the future! You have soooo much good ahead of you.
You will grow more than you ever knew possible, realise your actual strength and self worth. Become who you were always meant to be!
Meet new friends, enjoy new experiences and one day look back so thankful for this change that was thrust upon you.
I’m 11 years separated and Iam thriving. Please believe me that this space your in is only a moment and will be a big painful learning curve.
Sending you all the hugs I can xxx enjoy what’s to come, it can be hard and exhausting but so so worth it
as someone who has come out of a 14yr relationship this year, you will find yourself and happiness again.
time heals.
take time to do things for you.
I seeked a couseller, best thing I did. she helped me so much to work on myself. I focused on myself and our children.
Im no longer trying to please someone who doesn't want to be pleased.
6m later, someone decided to slide in my DMs on Facebook. wasn't expecting a relationship but he is fricken amazing.
you will be happy again and you will find yourself. trust in yourself as well.
❤❤❤
I separated from husband 3 months ago, no cheating on either side, the spilt is now amicable. I moved out of family home, it hasn't been easy, BUT I can breathe...and that means more to me now. It will he ok, believing in yourself is important, Good luck