I just got home from a weekend away with my 2 daughters. My husband had the house to himself for the weekend and chose to have some friends

Anon Imperfect Mum

I just got home from a weekend away with my 2 daughters. My husband had the house to himself for the weekend and chose to have some friends

Am I being unreasonable?

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Anon Imperfect Mum

If he didn’t clean up after himself and his mates then no you aren’t being unreasonable. If he let his mates sleep in your daughters beds and you’re made, no you aren’t being unreasonable. If there were women there and you weren’t told no you’re not being unreasonable. I’m invested and want to know the rest of this story.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

He mostly did a decent job of the clean up (just not the dog shit). He had blow up beds for his friends and I highly doubt there were any women here. I feel like I should be able to take our kids away for the weekend and come home to a house that is no more messy than how I left it, a healthy dog (or at least one that has been to the vet and sought treatment), basic groceries been done and a bank account that hasn’t been drained

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Anon Imperfect Mum

More information needed? Why would the dog need the vet? What happened to it? Why would groceries need to be done if you were only gone a weekend? Did you leave an empty fridge when you left? Whose bank account? And was it bill money that was spent or fun money? If he cleaned all except dog shit then how is it messier than when you left?
Sounds like you’re just salty he had fun without you.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Not enough info.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Just tell him to clean up. 🤷‍♀️ He’s obviously had a big weekend. And more info needed why would the dog need to go to the vet? What happened with it?

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Anon Imperfect Mum

The having friends over part yea you are. It is his house too and you aren't his mother to dictate who he can and can't have over.
As for the rest the not cleaning properly and using all the money...Yes that part is reasonable to be mad at.

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