I've been sexting and having phone sex with a guy for a number of months. We planned to meet a couple of times, but for various reasons it didn't happen. Our contact is really driven by me, but he's a willing participant. I feel like I need to let him go and move on, but don't seem to be able to, despite our contact being much less frequent than what it once was. He's very sexual and kinky and I feel like that's what's drawing me in, but on the other hand I feel like I need to let him go as what we're doing is never going to lead to anything.
Lately I've been thinking about broaching the subject of meeting again as a way of bursting the bubble and giving me a reality check.
I guess my question is whether anyone else has faced the same dilemma and if so did meeting the person help you to move on.
Sexting/Phone Sex
Sexting/Phone Sex
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You're not going to meet. And if you did, it would be the biggest let down. It is what it is now, basically just a free phone sex line that he can take or leave when you pop up.
I know meeting would be a let down just hoped it would help me let go. Can't seem to at the moment.
I get it, a bit of harsh truth should though. This fella is putting literally zero into this (you). Go find better.
Had a very similar situation a while ago. We know each other through mutual friends and we’re Snapchatting a lot over a few years, never actually meeting up, always planning on it, but one or the other would have a partner, be busy working. We’d see each other at an event and flirt, attached or otherwise.
Just before the first lockdown in 2020, we did manage to eventually meet up. Was awesome and a great deal of fun, fantastic sex. However, we were both kind of seeing someone at the time, so just kept it to Snapchat sexting and flirting. If it so happens we are both single at the same time one day, quite likely to take it further, but just a bit of fun here and there for now.
Wow, so blase about cheating.