My partner of 10 years has a porn addiction, he is trying to stay off porn sites, but lately he's been getting off to photos of females selling swimsuits, mini dresses etc on Fb marketplace. I find this disgusting and stalkerish. Am I wrong to feel this way?
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Ewww you have ever right to feel this way. I’d be gone
Are we talking actual models in paid advertisements or is he actively searching for bikinis and mini dresses and jerking off to random Facebook users?
Both are gross and both are problematic in terms of his porn addiction because he hasn't actually worked on his addiction, he's just replaced the porn with other images to sexualise.
But if it's random women trying to sell their clothes on the marketplace that he's now using for his masturbatory fantasies, that does add a pretty creepy element beyond his addiction.
Aside from the blatant objectification, there's also no way of knowing how old the people in the pictures are and I always wonder what this means in terms of consent because I don't think most women would want their marketplace pictures being used this way.
Either way, you're not wrong for being disgusted by this behaviour.
Leave unless he seeks serious help from a psychologist. My ex husband has a porn addiction. I initiated sex one night (one or many, but this night broke me) he said “no, i’m not in the mood” i rolled over and tried to go to sleep, but the bed was shaking, he had waited maybe 10 seconds after i rolled over to pull out his phone and start masturbating to porn. I yelled at him and he told me i was being sensitive.
The straw that broke the camels back was when i was bottle feeding our son and he demanded my mouth. I told him no because i am feeding our son and he slapped me in the face with his penis and sat on the couch loudly watching porn and masturbating next to our child. He honestly believed he wasn’t doing anything wrong
Omg what a low life grub
Yeah, i have a lot of regrets marrying him, but when you’re trapped, you don’t think you have any other choice.
Thank god for my son, he gave me the strength to leave and seek a better safer life
Yeah, i have a lot of regrets marrying him, but when you’re trapped, you don’t think you have any other choice.
Thank god for my son, he gave me the strength to leave and seek a better safer life
Yep deviant
Eww leave….
Ewwww totally fine to feel the way you do!