not really sure what I'm asking but here goes
We have been together almost 14years, we are coming up to our 10year wedding anniversary, we have 2 children together (11 & 12), I also have 2 kids from another realtionship 15 & 19.
we moved away from his family and friends about 8 years ago to be closer to my family, He has noone here and has barely made a friend.
He has a great relationship with both my older kids who consider him dad, of course we have had our issues there but mainly the 15yo, she hasnt been home for over a year, I do speak to her everyday, Hubby and I had issues within our realtionshiop last year with the way he was treating the situation with her, (she went a bit off the track, police, arrests, refusuing to go to school, slef harming, suicide attempt), he saw it as her just trying to get attention, I basically said at this time if he didnt change the way he saw the situation I'm out. so things have definitely improved on that front.
But I am just not happy, I don't really know how to explain, I'm forever daydreaming about separating, not just the odd occasion but all the time. I dont know how to tell him how im feeling, I know he truly loves me I really do not feel that way about him anymore. we have had "date nights" I dont enjoy his company anymore, even to the point some nights I will fall asleep so that we dont have sex (Yes we still do the deed, but when Im feeling like im needing it or feeling guilt about the way I have been thinking)
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You need to be honest. He probably senses something is up and that just makes everything worse.