The laws and durostoction is totally out of wack.
My kids have been snatched, and the police can't do a dam thing, regardless of BRAND NEW ORDERS. We not long finished in court, THE INK IS STILL WET.. ., and this was the first unsupervised school holiday contact in 2 and a half years. the department said she was fine and wouldn't do this.... (she's done this Twice befor) they got lazy didn't they. they didn't even want to be involved even though THEY REMOVED THE KIDS OFF HER TO BEGIN WITH.....First chance she got she snatched the kids. Not sending them to school, not giving medication, not allowing us to see our kids.... kids telling friends on line they are moving out of town and want to come home. Police not doing a well fair check as its a civil matter... our lawyer had to go in and show them the paper work. So they went, they didn't even go past the gait.
Because of covid, the recovery order is taking forever, and the prosess is a mess. We were in the children's court, but it was processed like family court. Revocery goes through federal court, and no one can be clear on who has durostiction. Family court says children's and visa versa. No one's in the court house due to covid, so everything is being done by phone or email, and NO ONE HAS A FUCKING CLUE.....!
I want my babies home safe, away from a drug affected deluded mentally unstable mother who wants nothing more then the child support she'd hopes she will get. A mother who is neglecting their education, their health, and mental well-being.
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If they are at risk keep reporting her. Track her down someone must know. Get those kids back and away from her. Ring child services. Poor kids
I would legit go vigilante and track her and steal the children even if it meant taking her out. She won't have disappeared. She's somewhere she's been before, where people she knows live.
Is that word jurisdiction? I’m having trouble understanding this. Are these your partners kids with his ex? I’m genuinely struggling to comprehended what you’re trying to say
I'm dyslexic sorry for my spelling.
Yes my partners children, they have lived with us for 8 years, mother on supervised contact. She went years of being in and out of there lives then snatched the kids, we got them back, then she snatched them again. She decided to try and get them back so we back to court. 2.5years and $20000 later, new orders were made, docs stating they don't see her as a risk, even though she refused to do any drug tests. Funny thing is, she's got a son in forster care and docs won't give him back to her let alone see him unsupervised. We ran out of money so had to settle for an agreement we didn't want wich was UN supervised. These school holidays, she had them unsupervised for the first time in a very long time, and the first thing she does is refuse to give them back, and has now hid the children with family. Docs is trying to distance themselves as they have fucked up, and because of how the orders were written up, no one in federal court will take jurisdiction so we can do a revocery order as with covid, all courts around here are shut and every one is working from home, every one is confused. It "should" be done in children's court, but they keep saying because of the formate, it's family court but then they say no it's children's court.
Iv raised MY kids all their lives while their mother got high and drunk forgetting they even existed. Shes not sending them to school and my boys are not being medicated. My 10yos meds have been stopped suddenly and he's fallen into a very dark depression. And last time my 8yo was left with her unsupervised he nearly died from her not treating his condition. We have managed to contact the kids through snap chat and they want to come home.
Police can't act on court papers, only a recovery order witch is ridiculous being it states who the kids live with
The good news is that when you do get them back it will be permanently, shell never get them unsupervised again. If she gets them after a court battle and it gets written in papers, Don't hand them over. Since you know police won't do anything, she'll have to take you through court.
For now, find out where they are and go and get them. Call docs, call police, report report report, they're missing children.
Docs is distencing themselves as much as they can. They know they jave messed up royally. Twice they have said they will call me well tomorrow im walking in that office and not walking out with out speaking to the manager. During the time we were in in court, there were 3 different case workers. It was sloppy. The clinician was ignored by them. Im so mad. We have managed to talk to the kids through snap. Theu say they are OK but u can tell they aren't. They miss school their friends, their sister. The one child I though would love this is the one who is affected the most and wants to come home..
It's interesting isn't it?
I bet he's the one that gives you hell, pushes and tests your love for him.
He's so mean you think he hates you.
But he's the one who loves and needs you the most.
Fingers crossed for you x