Cheating

Anon Imperfect Mum

Cheating

So my boyfriend ( now ex boyfriend) up and left me with no explanation we have a son together he hasn't even contacted. After a week of not hearing from him he told me he was happier away, thats how he broke up with me. He has manipulated and controlled me for 3 yrs, his lies are wide open now. Fast forward to tonight and I find out he has also been cheating on me for months with some women he works with and had an emotional affair with end of last yr.
Im so angry I can't stop shaking she knew he had a girlfriend and a child. I have her number and I want to call her but I dont at the same time. I don't know what to do. I'm already going to court with him because he moved all our money into his company account so I can't take anything, now this. I feel like I've been hit by a truck my heart has been shattered into a million peices. I don't know what to do now.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Don't bother calling, you'll get absolutely nothing out of it. She'll claim he loves her more etc. In the end though, the truth is that this is how he treats women he "loves". When it's a bit less painful you will get to the point where you're thankful that she took him, imagine having spent the rest of your life with this cockhead? She'll have her turn.
Good luck in court. Take time to grieve and then time to heal. Check out Chump Lady for an online group of people in similar situations. There will be a lot of advice there.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I’m going other way, I’d called her stuff letting her get away with it. She knew and still allowed it to happen. Why should he cop all the blame. Let it rip

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