Hello ladies, I'm going to take a deep breath before writing. I'm so confused, hurt and feeling deeply betrayed. My partner has a problem with prostitutes. I've caught him out for a third time. Every time he has denied saying it's not him (Noone else has access to his Google account). The first time he denied than only once said yes I did that was the conversation we had pretty much. This has been going on way before we even got together I worked out. I'm currently pregnant and we already have kids. I will be going for another std check. I just don't know what to do like I know I should leave I just haven't. It's the lies that hurt and not understanding why why would he do it. We have a healthy sex life. I know it's not me it's him which was hard to tell myself we always seem to blame ourselves. I'm just so confused I love him I want to spend my life with him and our children. I'm having a complicated pregnancy and highly emotional I'm trying to keep it together for the kids and Baby in my belly. I'm scared I'm going to break down.
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Hed be my ex. I know thats easier said than done, but as difficult as it is you need to go through that to make it happen. This is disgusting, its definitely not your happy ever after.
It's unlikely you'll have an STI. Prostitutes are the most sexually cleanest promiscuous women on the planet.
As for him he has an addiction to using their services . Some men just do. So Sorry to hear that yours is one of them.
I'm aware of that as I've had friends in the industry. Except last time he was trying to find one that would let him not use protection. Which some do allow no protection.
I have a friend who works in a proper brothel and it’s optional whether they use protection or not
I am a sex worker and I can tell you now I do not ever have intercourse without a condom and nor does any of my sex worker friends. It is never optional to not use a condom in a brothel in fact it's a crime here in WA.
Is this how you want to live your life? Having to monitor your partners behaviour, being scared of catching an STD, and having your self esteem eaten away at until you are a shell of your former self?
It’s time to separate.
This 👆
Maybe stay with him until you have bubs and have settled into a bit of a routine.
You will also need to workout finances.
Do what’s best for you lovely lady, stuff him.
Stay as long as you need to then get rid of the jerk.