I want to leave my husband however I do t really have a real reason to why. I just don’t love him any more. He is great but just not what I want/need. We have 3 kids and all he does is yell and swear at them, he never seems happy which I think comes from the way I am around him. He will always be a great friend but I just can’t be with him any more. I have tried breaking it off a few times but never really follow through. I need help please?
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He’s abusing your children verbally! That’s the perfect reason to leave. He’s a miserable person to be around. Plenty of reasons right there.
I think you need to look at how unhealthy this situation truly is and that staying together isn’t good for you or the kids. At the very least give your kids some respite from this man while they are in your home.
Its not right, we're unhappy, its better to either fix it or end it now than to hurt each other or drive it into a ditch.
Perhaps think about getting counselling to work on your ability to tell him you b want b to leave. Alternatively see a relationship counsellor to help him understand how his behaviour impacts on everyone.
Yelling & swearing at kids. He doesn’t sound great