Is there any other women that feel nothing when having sex?
I mean I don't feel hubby penis inside me when he is in there. I don't feel him cum inside me either when he blows. It's not ever numb it just feels like nothing. I love to have sex with him & we have been married for 2yrs but together for 4yrs. It has always been like this & yes I feel I just fake it & make all the right noises when we are having sex as I don't want him to think he is small (which he isnt)
To embarrassed to talk to a doctor.
Just would love to know if other ladies feel like this to?
No feeling with sex
No feeling with sex
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Has it been like this with previous partners?
This seems like something I would have explored before just putting up with and faking through? I assume you have. Do you think its him or you?
Pelvic floor exercises
I know you don't want to hear it, but really don't be embarrassed! See your doctor, they deal with this and more. They will not even bat an eyelid. Imagine how your fella is going to feel when he finds out you've been pretending. Imagine missing the opportunity to ever fully enjoy making love to him because you're embarrassed.
Do it, Tuesday ring and make the appt.
I’m like that sometimes with my ex he’s average size and when I get a bit too wet I cannot feel anything.. I find certain positions help candlestick or doggy or if I do things like good BJ to really get him thicker usually never feel cum as I’m always a bit to wet but days I’m wetter than normal I can’t feel him so change it up a bit so I’m not faking not that I’d ever tell him he was already conscious of size he was definitely in normal range but never felt good about his size
Its because your just not that into it. Its easy to feel nothing when your not even enjoying it.
Can you feel other things in there (ie dildo, vibrator, fingers etc)? If not, then see a doctor
Are you taking any medications? Antidepressant medications can have this effect. If so, talk to your Dr about alternatives.
Pelvic organ prolapse and vaginal laxity can cause this problem. See a good women's health physiotherapist for an internal assessment
Honestly
I didn’t realise this wasn’t a normal thing... I feel on the outside labias ect, and if my
Cervix is hit I can feel that, but the actual
Feeling of Anything inside my vagina I wouldn’t say I much ‘ feel’ anything. Except the stretch of my vaginal opening.. I don’t feel the ‘ stimulation’ inside the vaginal canal, it’s always been like that, so I’ve never thought this was anything other then normal.. 🤔
I am the same. I need external stimulation or it just feel like nothing 🤷♀️
If this is something you feel too embarrassed to see your gp about, you can always go and see your local sexual health or women’s and family health clinic if there is one in your area.
It’s definitely unusual to feel nothing when penetrated, although there could be several reasons for it. It should be investigated though as there could be various causes, such as nerve involvement or damage, or even a medication causing a lack of sensation. Hoping that you get some resolution.
Does he know where your clit is? Most women need that touched or are unable to orgasm.
5 surgeries downstairs thanks to an issue with a gland left me with some nerve damage, after that giving birth to an over 10pound baby really affected feeling during intimacy.
I have found a position that really helps, its like missionary but your legs are over your mans shoulders and he is on his knees.
I would go to a doctor or even just bring it up at your next smear test, when they ask if you have any pain during sex just drop it into conversation, since the topic is already out there it might be a way of making it easier for you to bring up.
Good luck!
Maybe you should try anal
Yes I have this also
We have been together for 23 years and when I look back on our early days of having sex it was always one sided he would ejaculate so quickly but I never thought anything of it because we would have sex so much but now I feel nothing or feel used because nothing has changed just that we don't have a lot of sex now and its the same feeling fast and done and he will say it's because of me with my weight or the fact I can't get on top but he has changed a lot too his penis has changed and so has his attitude towards me
Hopefully my post has helped a bit
Good luck with your relationship
I've experienced this in certain situations but it was all down to technique. I don't think the vagina works the way we have been told. There are certain spots that when hit it feels good or if they move a certain way and it feels good when the clit is stimulated but otherwise if it's straight boring in and out you might not feel much. Teach him new ways to pleasure you. I don't feel much if it's at an even pace. I like it when it's slow then pow pow 😂 also I don't think many people feel cum. I think that's a porn thing. Not to say that nobody does but it's mostly a mental thing.