Big boobs

Anon Imperfect Mum

Big boobs

Hi Sisterhood.
My husband was never interested in my b cup boobs so we talked about breast enlargement to make him horny over them. I’m now a dd sometimes an e and I feel really really sexy but when I ask him he just says yeah they are alright. Last night I got undressed and sat on his lap and asked him to rub them which made him horny because we ended up having sex. He then went and sat on the lounge which I sat next to him still naked and rubbed his cock which instantly got hard again and I pulled him until he cum. I’ve been sending him picture messages of my pussy which I know he gets horny over but now I’ve added my tits because they are bigger.
Is there a way to make him super horny over them?
I’m a size 12 but tits are now a dd e depending on bra size is there anything sexy to show my tits off to him more?
Before breast augmentation he said with my tits being bigger I’d be his sex toy and it’s not how it’s turning out at the moment.
Are men really turned on by bigger tits or did I do wrong and should’ve left them at a b cup?

Edit to add.
I have my clit pierced which I know he loves as he always licks me out and he’ll rub his dick on my piercing all the time. I’ve also got my nipples pierced which he loves ( I had them pierced beforehand).

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18 Replies

Anon Imperfect Mum

😂 This is such a troll post. Super horny baby. Just in case it's real men don't just stare at boobs and get super horny straight away. Like they're nice to look at but they don't look at them then get an instant hard on and need to urgently relieve themselves, well not unless they're 13. The more they see them, the more normal they are. Sounds like he likes yours, not sure why you think you need to be a sex toy for him, you may need to see a psych. If its him forcing you to be like this then you have to seriously look at your relationship, forcing you to change your body is a form of abuse.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I really didn’t need the details!

Never ever change your body for someone else. It will never work out like you think. It will never live up to expectations and there will always be someone with bigger boobs than you.

Relax a bit. What does he do to keep you interested in him?

Only make changes to your body if they are what you want only.

PS I have huge boobs, some guys like them, some guys don’t. I don’t care, what matters is if I like them or not. A guys sex drive won’t magically increase because you’ve made a change to your body.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Really don't think we needed a blow by blow account of your sexual escapades...
Most of the details here are irrelevant, I suggest editing them out because they detract from your real question (if this is indeed a genuine post).

Assuming it is though.

Sounds like your entire sense of self worth directly relies on your husband's arousal, to the point you are surgically altering your body. That is not healthy!

I really think you need to consider getting some therapy.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Stupid troll!

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Get some self respect and learn self worth. Maybe he is turned off by your personality

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Anon Imperfect Mum

This post felt like an unsolicited dick pic! Gross

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Right! This was a very uncomfortable read.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I thought the same. I am definitely not a prude by any means but this made me so uncomfortable.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Yes!!! Absolutely!! I have a pretty healthy sex life but it's between my husband and I. This was more a LOOK AT MEEEEE attention screaming.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

🤣🤣🤣🤣 get a hobby or some help. Because changing your body for someone is seriously unhealthy. Also, no one gives a shit about your clit and pierced boobs 🤣

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I was out at "my husband was never interested in my b cup boobs".

Over-sharing and decorum would be 2 words to google the meaning of.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Your husband was never interested in you, nothing will change that, especially not changing yourself, following him around naked and rammimg nude pics of yourself at him.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

It’s all a little mills and boons if you ask me - boring 🙄 shake it up a bit. Seen one set of boobs seen them all 😂
Honestly, try writing in a diary or something you might sell a book. Not here no one wants to read this.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Which part of Thailand do you come from? Are you Pre or post surgery? I cannot take this seriously at all 🤣🤣🤣

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Sorry to the ladies I have offended with my post that wasn’t my intention at all.
I tried to give the story so you could understand what had happened when he said after breast aug it would
Be different. Maybe his not into to me at all and just uses me when he feels the need to get off. He doesn’t kiss or provide any affection at any other time. I do love him but feel unloved and I was kind of hoping he would see me as attractive once doing this. Just a little upset.
I’m so sorry I provided too much detail I was just trying to get people to understand what has happened
I’m not sure if I stay or I find someone who will make time to be interested in me.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Why would it be different though?
Think on it.
There's women with tiny tits whom their partners absolutely adore, little tits and all.
If your partner wasn't into your tits before it's because he's not that into you. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with you, just that it sounds like you've hitched your saddle to the wrong horse. Whether he's sexually aroused or not says 0 about any of the other issues you mention in your relationship. It will fix nothing.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

You are with the wrong guy. No amount of changing you is going to make him affectionate.

There are guys out there who would love you and show affection no matter what your boob size,

I also think it’s important to work on your self esteem with a counsellor/psychologist. So you can learn the difference between a healthy relationship vs jumping through hoops to get someone to have sex with you.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

You want to be sexy and flirty with him, but you know how you come across, desperate, needy, insecure and needing someone to validate you. That shits exhausting, no man wants that. Modifying your body for him reeks of desperation, men like to do a little bit of the work too, seduction etc. With your current mindset, no man will want you, they may use you, but they won’t respect you. Become an independent woman, get a job, hobby, study, friends, interests, do things to make him respect you. Clit rings, large breasts, they don’t gain you respect. Stop sending the pics, back off a bit, sounds like your clinginess is suffocating him. Find your worth or this relationship and any other will end the same, they will grow bored and annoyed with you. It’s a vicious cycle, the more you push him to want you, the more desperate you are and the less he will want you etc etc maybe get some professionally counselling, you have more to offer than just sex and that gets tiring after a while if there isn’t anything more to you.

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