My Son is 16 and has had a girlfriend for 9 months now. He relly loves her as much as a 16 year old does but recently found out that she has sent inappropriate signals to 3 other boys, one resulting in a kiss. This was around the 6 month mark. He is devestated and she seems like she is sorry for her actions but he is finding it hard to move on. They are still together and she is a nice girl both suffer from low selfesteem and neither are ready to be without the other. How Do I help my boy through this. He doesnt trust her but doesnt want to be without her either
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It's a hard lesson to learn, but you can't be with someone you don't trust. Help him to watch his own behaviour and feelings, if he's turning into someone he doesn't want to be with controlling, questioning, jealousy, hate, snide comments, feeling inadequate etc, then he has to make the hard choice to leave her behind.