Started seeing a great guy 9 weeks ago. We have loads in common, despite him being 9 years older then me. The last few days I have been feeling off & brought up the subject of him being online still. Sure enough, he is on Zoosk. We are exclusive, but I didnt comedown in the last shower. I am a direct person. do I send him a screenshot of his profile & approach him calmly or put it down to a old profile, he just hasnt cancelled yet?
Internet dating & when is it appropriate to take down your dating profile?
Internet dating & when is it appropriate to take down your dating profile?
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Just because he has it doesn't mean he's active. It's hard to delete them all. I think I still have a Tinder account even though I haven't touched it for 5 years 🤣. You only started seeing each other 9 weeks ago I would probably save the screenshots and confronting for a while yet. Don't scare him off too soon.
Some sites you can tell when they were last online
Isn't zoosk from 20 years ago? I would stress over that one the least. But have the conversation, ask what hes done about his profiles and let him know it'll be over if he's still on them at this point now you're far enough in.
Still so early.... He probably hasnt give his profiles another thought since being with you. Enjoy the journey and until he gives you a real reason not to trust him, enjoy his company
Wouldn't you have had to be on Zoosk yourself to be able to get the screenshots of his Zoosk profile?
If so, is that not a bit of a double standard?
Look, I think a chat about "well, we're exclusive now. What are we doing about our online dating profiles?" is probably okay, but confronting him with your 'evidence' really won't paint you in a great light.
Not necessarily, a friend may have sent it to her. Never assume...
It wasn't an assumption, it was a question and a pretty fair one in my opinion.
She could have been logging on to delete her account and seen it 🤷♀️