How do you make friends in your 30’s?

Anon Imperfect Mum

How do you make friends in your 30’s?

How do you make friends as an adult? I had some great friends in another state when my children were little but now I can’t seem to find people I click with. I have friends at work who I chat to but not any seperate from there. I miss lunch and shopping trips, walks and friends to catch up with as a family.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Im in my late twenties but feel the same. All my friends live on another state and none of them have kids. My best friend may never have children and that’s fine because she’s a great Aunty and always has that extra energy to be fun when we do see her. I am lonely though. Face time is great and all but I have no one to grab a coffee with, no one to just be like “I need a girls night want to come over?”

I did download an app called Peanut but still not a lot came from that. We tried play group and it wasn’t for me, or our local isn’t. I’m hoping next year in primary school we can find our people.

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Sophie White

If anyone is in vic, I’m so keen for new friends! I can find you on FB if you take it off anon :)

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Kylie Smith

I’m in Victoria, specifically Melbournes Eastern suburbs (Mt Dandenong area). Are you near there?

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Kylie Smith

Also, I’ll give you my proper last name if you’re in my area :)

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Sophie White

Hi Kylie! Yesssss I am indeed actually - I’m in Yarra Ranges!!! So very close by!!

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Kylie Smith

Oh wow, that’s lucky! I’m Ferntree Gully! My last name is Pegoraro, you should find my profile easily!

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Kylie Smith

I’m in mt early 30s and have heaps of ‘friends’ but no actual friends to hang out with.
My 2 best friends live in QLD and i’m in Victoria :(.
I have at different times had some close friends, shopping trips, breakfast/lunch trips, parties etc, but for different reasons i’ve distanced myself or the friendship just ran it’s course. I just want 1 close friend, 1 friend that i can hang out with

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I dont have answers for you but I know exactly how you feel as I could have write this. I am in cairns where are you

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