Hi IMs, I am wondering what mums do to increase their sex drive? My husband and I have been married for nearly 10 years and are very attracted to each other. However, lately, I have been feeling less and less like having sex. I think this may have to do with being on the pill for my endometriosis, adenomyosis and IBS. What does everyone else do or take to increase their sex drive? He is getting a bit annoyed with me constantly turning him down because of cramps, low energy etc and I feel like he is hassling me all the time to do it. When we do have sex, I am very satisfied so that isn't the issue it's just getting to do it that's the trouble. Would love your advice/tips/tricks. Thanks!!
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He needs to realise the rejection/turning down isn't personal. I feel for him (I'm in your husband's position in my own marriage) as being turned down is hard. But when there are health problems at play, we HAVE to get our heads out of our own butts and realise it's not a rejection of US.
No, just a rejection of sexual intimacy