Does anyone else have no sex drive? Sex makes me feel anxious and I could go for the rest of my life without having it again. This problem has ruined most of my relationships and I'm worried that it will ruin future relationships. I'm wondering if anyone has had the same problem and what they've done to fix it
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Have you been to a doctor to have your hormones and thyroid tested? Anti depressants or the pill could also help.. Speak to your Dr.
I could also go the rest of my life without having it and be perfectly happy and content. Not wanting to have sex is only a problem if it’s something you personally feel like you’re missing, and it’s not just that you feel like you should want to
I’d suggest having a long think about where your desire to “fix” it is coming from. Is it actually coming from you and your desires? Or are you maybe ace/ace flux/grey ace?
If it’s external factors making you feel like you *should* want to have sex, then please, please remember that you absolutely don’t have to and there’s a whole community of people who are here to support you.
If it’s something you genuinely want to fix for yourself, your first point of call would be your doctor to see if there’s a medical/mental health reason for a dip in your libido.
Best of luck and so much love!