Opening our relationship

Anon Imperfect Mum

Opening our relationship

Hi all, my partner and I have decided to try exploring our sexual options with other couples/ females. We have had many discussions and lots of research so not chasing feedback on whether you think this is ‘right or wrong’. Finding a lot of the sites filled with much older people who don’t fit our mix. We are early 30s, fit, well presented, looking for a discreet, tasteful experience. Where would we start? Any suggestions? Located Cairns.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Sex workers. Try them. They have the experience to fullfill and help with any needs you require .

I am a sex worker myself and although i personally don't see couples, i know plenty who do! You won't go wrong going down this avenue. Its also better than asking friends, as its less awkward

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Probably older people because they’ve been together years and have got bored of each other and need something to spice things up lol

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Please don't go with friends or people you know. It gets very messy. Try Fetlife.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Sex workers. Look at legal brothels.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Try the app called Feeld

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Try adult match maker for swingers parties in your area. I’ve been to some in my area, they tend to have a mix of ages and people and there is no pressure to do anything if you don’t want to. Or you could also search for swingers clubs in your area.

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Kat Simmonds

If your ever in brisbane visit Taboo22. Its a nice easy going swingers club with no expectations to do anything. They have social couples who go to dip their toes in so to speak. You can check them out on fb or their website. But make sure you both ahve clear boundaries and rules about what is and isnt aloud. My parents have been swinging so to speak to 30years and always stick to thw rules they have put in place

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Anon Imperfect Mum

My husband and I were looking into this.
There is an app by the name of Feeld. We found this to be full of younger people wanting the same experiences.
We ended up putting it on the back burner given the current situation, but everyone was very polite and understand of what everyone was after.
It's the same concept of tinder. You both need to match to start a conversation.

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