I separated with my ex after 12 years , around this time last year we have three beautiful girls together , he has had multiple short term gfs which he has introduced to our girls , he always seems to hang on to me texting me etc making sure he knows what I am doing he is living in our family home still going through the solicitors sorting it out , I think I know the answer to my own question but need a opinions he msgs me most morning say have a good day and sweet dreams , last weekend I helped him get wood and spent the night with him then this weekend he has another girl at his house all weekend and doesn’t text etc he says he is ready for anything he is just tagging me along isn’t he I need to let go don’t I.
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Time to let him go and distance yourself from him. The way things currently stand you are only going to get your heart broken over and over again.
You are so onto it x Don't let him use or confuse you anymore.
He's not even stringing you along, he's flaunting in your face other women right after you were with him.
As far as he's concerned you're an ego boost and he doesn't even have to try with you because you're still there after all of this.
Stop being there.
My husband and I were separated for 2 years. We both saw other people. You might find your way back to each other if you both really want it. Maybe have the conversation and both be clear on where you stand.