Lying

Anon Imperfect Mum

Lying

Is there any good counsellers in cairns that help with chronic lying, I do it all the time and I need to find out why and stop it. It’s ruining my marriage

Posted in:  Relationships & Marriage, Mental Health, Anxiety & Depression

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Good for you x Interested to know if you have ADHD? My adult stepson has a problem with lying and it was always thought that it had something to do with his ADHD. People who were scared of punishment when they were kids also have a problem with lying. I hope you get to the bottom of it, it's good that you recognise it 😊

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I lie alot myself.

Mine was trauma based in childhood.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Oh you poor girl. Well you have done the best thing, admitting and doing something about it. Well done. You need to rewire your brain. Think before you speak. Is it a lie and ask yourself why you need to lie.? Think of a positive and the truth before speaking. Take your time, take a positive approach when you speak. There must be some kind of trauma or something you have been through. Just remember you don’t need to lie and you will be so much more respected if you are honest, just as you are here in your post. So good to read someone admitting this, that must be a huge step for you. Well done.

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