Hi sisters.
My husband and I have been together for 13 years, have 3 amazing children-we both work full time. He is a shift worker and I work Monday to Friday. We have a good sex life, usually have sex 2-3 times a week, he always cums.
The problem is porn! I knew he liked it when we got together and I did too, but we never really enjoyed watching it together-we both found it a bit embarrassing and unnecessary. However, I know he still watches it when I’m not home, I see it on his phone history. I just don’t understand though why he needs to look at it when I’m not there-I’m a very willing participant in our sex life and feel rejected that he needs this. I get really upset if I try and have sex with him and he rejects me, but has looked at porn that day and probably had a w@nk but couldn’t he just have waited til I got home? I get that he’s a shift worker and I might not be home when he wakes up after a day sleep, but seriously? Will waiting a couple of hours mean his balls will explode?!
I’ve told him many times I feel rejected when this happens and that it upsets me, but he still keeps looking at it. I wouldn’t mind if I wasn’t up for it-but I am! I love having sex with him! Am I being a ridiculous crazy person?
Husband likes porn more than sex
Husband likes porn more than sex
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Your sex life sounds reasonably healthy if you have it a few times a week. It's not like he rejects you everytime and WONT have sex with you... THEN it would definitely be a issue.
stop looking at his browser history.
I never know when my partner has a wank.. that's his business. So long as you do have sex often, why does it matter? You're just torturing yourself by looking at his browser history.
Not being crazy but the fact the he cums when he has sex with you doesn’t actually mean much and neither does the fact that you have sex weekly. Is it good sex? Is he actually enjoying it? Just because you are willing to participate is it the same every time. Normal, scheduled him on top?
Your husband may watch porn because he is into things in the bedroom that he doesn't feel comfortable doing with you or any other number of reasons. If he was rejecting every time I'd have some concerns but it seems as though you're happy with your sex life with him so as a previous poster said stop looking at his browser history and remember that just because you're married doesn't mean you can't take care of yourself sometimes.