Ladies I need your opinions! I have a fwb and he wants to try different things in the bedroom. He has come up with the idea of me urinating on him. I’m completely and utterly shocked as to what he wants me to do to him, do you think this is a strange thing that he has asked me to do? What other things could I try that are different, I don’t do disgusting things like this. I think The thought of it makes me feel sick and uncomfortable. Am I being too straight. I’m kinky in the bedroom but this is next level. No judging please! As anyone else had this happen to them?
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It’s actually quite a common fetish, it’s absolutely not something I’d be comfortable with though. It’s a domination and submission thing really and it’s not something i would encourage trying with a FWB, that type of experimentation should be with someone you’re EXTREMELY comfortable with.
What about discussing role play, where you go to say a bar and you pretend you’re both somebody else and go home together? Or maybe bringing some toys into the bedroom, go shopping together and pick a few out that interest you both.
If it makes you uncomfortable don’t do it. I consider myself fairly experienced and I wouldn’t do it either, but I’m well aware it is something a small minority like.
You are not being too straight.
Golden showers have been joked about in one past relationship, but more in a gross that’s disgusting way, not in a we are curious way.
Don’t do something if it makes you uncomfortable.
Doesn't matter if you're super conservative or extremely open minded - if something sexual makes you uncomfortable then that's that!
All you need to say is "That's not for me" if he's a good guy, he'll completely understand. If he forces the issue and continues to pressure you, it's time to say toodaloo douche bag!
🤮 that’s revolting. Animals don’t even piss on each other
I mean yeah it’s a little weird but I don’t think it’s an overly uncommon fetish, of course never do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable, but since you’re asking the question you could always suggest starting in the shower and doing it there then moving to the bed.
Lol, I get paid very well for water sports like this.
It's called a golden shower and isn't as strange, weird or taboo as you think.
Are you a dominatrix? This fascinates me, I’ve been asked on multiple occasions to dom young men, and I’ve been asked to do this heaps.
My hubby loves it. I found it very difficult to do at first but am getting better. And I only do it in the shower for obviously reasons
This is actually a common fettish, usually referred to as a golden shower. If you decied to go ahead with it do it in the shower so it’s messier to clean up.
This came up in an episode of Sex and the city with Carrie.
She suggested tipping warm water on him but he wanted the real deal.
They broke up.
I myself would have to decline this request. If it isn’t your thing say so.
Wow your not as kinky as you think you are if you have never even heard of this. It's called a golden shower. It is also surprisingly popular.
No matter what your asked to do, if it puts you in an uncomfortable situation you can always say no. You have the right to do that. I always try before I knock suggestions back. If it does not please you dont do it again. The choice is always yours