I've told my husband I want to separate, we're currently living under the one roof, but I'm thinking I need to move out with our son as I know he won't do anything. Wondering what others have done when they separated, I'm worried that he'd try to sabotage things when the house is put up for sale as he's already made threats when I try to declutter. Not sure what I'm asking really other than what others have done, moved out and left him to pay the mortgage? Obtained legal advice?
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If you can, probably more practical to move out when the house is sold.
The weekly inspections, you really need to keep the place tidy and clean, can you trust him with that?
You also want to be involved, know what’s happening.
Also, you’ll then have bulk funds to start your new life.
Sometimes you just have to move out or they never get the point and you can find yourself stuck there forever.