Sorry if this is tmi
I have been with my partner for 17 years, we have 3 kids together 15,12 and 6
Intercourse for us most of the time is soooo rushed, not because we want it to be rushed but because we don’t want to get caught even if we are doing it late at night and the kids are in bed. It’s still pretty awesome, I mean we have always been very attracted to each other and it only grows stronger each and everyday. We probably do it maybe once a week cause we are so busy with everyday life and usually we have to book each other in it’s not as fun doing it this way but of course still feel bloody damn good once we get into it even if it’s rushed. Tonight..: OMG tonight blew my head clean off. See we haven’t been able to have sex spontaneously in a very long time cause we just really don’t want to get caught so it’s usually hidden in our wardrobe or locked bathroom (we are so worried our kids will catch us so we are overly cautious) but tonight the kids are sleeping over at their aunties and we did it like we used to, I didn’t realise how much o actually missed it. I have lost 10kgs since the start of this year so I have a lot more confidence then I did before and I will say if he wanted to try these old positions that we used to do all the time last year I would have died as I just didn’t like the way I looked back then, so it started off rubbing, kissing, then he went down there and at first I was uncomfortable thinking do I look good, do I feel nice etc, then I just thought you know what, just enjoy it, let him do what he wants and when I let go, my god did it feel so good, he put his hands under my bum lifted me up in so many ways, he was kissing my inner thighs, my legs etc and then going to the goods and I swear it was like an hour of foreplay and then the real business began, my body started to shake, I pushed away cause it felt so good but he pulled me back in and there was no escaping. My mind was blown, my whole body felt tingles in places I haven’t felt in a long time. He says he knows intuitively what he needs to do as he can spiritually feel me and I honestly believe him cause he knew when I was about to explode and he would take the action I needed and it was amazing, you know when you get so excited and you just want to bite someone? Well maybe that’s just me but I swear I could have jumped him in a good way, but he loves to take control and I just let him. I surrendered tonight, I forgot about my insecurities and I allowed my beautiful partner to have me. Ladies. Let your insecurities go and allow yourself to feel your partner, allow him to take control, to feel you all over your body. My experience that I always used to have with my partner when my 2 oldest boys were a lot younger happened tonight, and for so long it was just quick and rushed and I was so ashamed of how I looked etc so I was in the way of allowing myself to experience what we have both been missing for so long. We have a great relationship, of course I want to kill him sometimes and vice versa but 17 yrs we are still very Much in love and tonight it wasn’t sex it was love, I felt soooo loved, like he literally loved every part of my body, I have just been holding him back and he respected my insecurities but tonight I let him in and it was beyond sex it was sacred. So please, let go and just allow yourself to be free and allow your partner to love every inch of you. You won’t regret it. I absolutely love my man in every way, and in so many ways.
Let me know is your sex life after so many years only getting better?
Edit: reason for sharing is in the hopes this post helps someone to let go of the way they see themselves and just enjoy those special moments. Sex is very important in any relationship and so is all the other stuff. It shouldn’t be a taboo subject it’s very normal for us humans to experience the magic and love exchange. So I really hope this helps even 1 person let go and connect intimately like they once used to, I felt some details were important to share to give an idea of what I did that used to make me feel self conscious. To all the negative comments I wish you all nothing but peace and love 💓
Im 31 and my partner is 34
I just had to share.
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Yep, it felt creepy
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This is not even bad. She vaguely described foreplay. Get a grip ladies, I hear more exciting sexual encounters when I have coffee with my Italian friend who tells me every little gory detail 😂
Yeah, I dunno. To me it reads like it belongs in Picture magazine, not the IM group. Doesn't offend me at all, the details just seem out of place for the supposed context.
Majority of our sex lives are pretty bloody good, but I agree that the poster has expressed far more than she should have. We all know what good sex is, she's written like she's trying to teach us how it's done 🤣🤣. I have some stories that are more hardcore and would blow her mind out of the water than this, but her posting the details is just so she can get a wind up and she got many. She was probably rubbing herself up as she typed it, so of course some people are going to think she's just out for the shock value. That was her goal. I didn't even read it all, and what i did read was just creepily written
That's my opinion, doesn't have to be agreed with but several of us feel it was.
It's not overly descriptive though! The most description is he is kissing her thighs. I just don't get the fuss, she hasn't explicitly described her encounter. To me it just sounds like she had a good root and was on a bit of a high and wanted to share. That's ok.
As the poster said , sorry if it's too much TMI and it is ! Then when we say so she attacks on how why it isn't .
What exactly is too much info for you? Copy and paste the bits you found too much.
As I said the poster said TMI. U blind?
I read that, people also write that when writing about gastro so what's your point? It's a warning for any overly sensitive souls that they might not want to read further so you probably shouldn't have.
It's hardly gastro, and I never read the whole post. Before you assume I read it all , ask . I didn't need to read it all to voice an opinion ,, just like several other commenters here
Well maybe you should have read it all, the post is more about body image and don't assume your partner looks at your body the same way you do. That's what it is about.
It's exhibitionism with a thinly veiled 'reason'.
Love it!!! Thank you for sharing...
I’m confused
If this is “sooo normal” why are so weirdly paranoid about your kids finding out you have sex?