I’m in a pickle.
Have been married 5 years. Have 3 kids together. I’m 27 and he’s 30.
I though my lack of libido had something to do with breastfeeding/motherhood but I think it has something to do with not being sexually attracted to my husband.
And I also find myself thinking about having sex with other people.
I’m feeling depressed about only ever having sex with my husband for the rest of my life. The sex is passionless, boring and doesn’t feel good for me at all.
I’d love to have an open relationship because my husband is my best friend so I don’t want to leave but I’d love the sexual freedom, and wouldn’t care if he slept with someone else, as long as he was getting his emotional intimacy from me.
Am I terrible? Has anyone else experienced this?
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Have you discussed it with him (obviously not the “your unattractive part) and just explained your not getting what you need out of your sexual relationship? Maybe he feels the same. Maybe you can come up with a solution together