Hi ladies,
This isn’t a question it’s more of a pep talk. Day after day I see a lot of women on here, social media and friends going through the same stuff, they are in a relationship with someone that isn’t making them feel how they should. It honestly makes me so sad to think how many woman are putting up with men treating them like shit. We are all beautiful, we are all powerful, we give life for god sake.
I too was in a terrible relationship that relationship caused me to be depressed, gain weight, not see friends or family. My ex made me go on anti depressants because it made me flat like I was a zombie. ( I’m not encouraging anyone not to take them they just weren’t for me)
The hold someone can have over you is scary, you start to not see your self worth, no one loves you, your fat and so one.
But last year I decided enough was enough i didn’t recognise the person looking back at me in the mirror. I ended my relationship. I had to move back in with my parents with the kids. I even quit my old job. I booked an appointment with a weight lose surgeon.
Fast forward to today I just moved out of my parents into my own place with my kids,
I have a great new job, I had my weight loss surgery iv lost 57kgs. My life is 100% better then what it was last year. It’s not perfect I’m dirt poor but I’m fucking happy. My point is ladies don’t stay in a relationship if that relationship is making you question your self worth or makes you not feel like you. You are loved you are beautiful and you deserve to be happy.
Women power
Women power
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I agree , I am thin beautiful and intelligent but have been told that I am a dumb stupid c@%t of a thing on many occasions , the best quote on MOTHers day ... I have seen the best of you ! This is comming from a cheating lying disrespectful abusive man who is never home and never made an effort in the house or with myself emotionally , addicted to porn and the constant your jealous of other women when I would actively see him behave and gawk like a pig was horrendus, he finally left anyhow and blamed me ! I almost almost got so low I wanted to kill myself ! Then I realised no way what type of a human behaves like that and I left said no more ! He is an abuser and always will be , my kids are happiest when its just us, he is always taking from me and degrading or skating my parenting when he can not take 5 mins to call his kids over 5 days whilst away on work trips, it's sad women get strong and get out end of