Ok everyone. I don’t know how to actually put this in words so please bear with me.
I have a house hold with myself and partner plus a 2(f) & 14(m) yr old. About a month or so ago we had to become full time career for my father as he is battling cancer. After 8 months already told he is in remission. That’s not the problem.
What is the issue is that my father goes off at everything to the point my 2 yr old is a little scared of him. The 14 yr old doesn’t want to live here and told me he was going to do something bad (won’t say what). He did the right thing and walked away in a mess. This all was because of his grandfather calling him stupid, idiot and plenty of other profanities. The 14 yr old has gone to his dads till it calms down. He has issues at school plus is ADHD, ODD and CD. As you can imagine I have a lot to deal with as it is with the 14yr old.
My father has the I don’t care attitude. He will also wake up tomorrow as if nothing has happened. He doesn’t realise what has happened and the damage that has been done.
I am torn as what to do. The 14yr old lives with me as it’s better for him but in the same boat we have to be career for my father. Any advice is greatly appreciated. Please no nasty comments.
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