Relationship/Sex Advice

Anon Imperfect Mum

Relationship/Sex Advice

I have been with my husband for 8 years (married for 5 with 2 sons.) My hubby has always had a good sex drive however over the past few months he can't stay hard during sex (whether he has ejaculated or not.) He is only 27 and quite fit and healthy. What could be wrong? I know sex isn't everything, however it is really hurting my confidence. I am constantly thinking- Am I that bad or not as attractive anymore that he can't stay hard?
Other than this he is an amazing husband and father. Any advice would be fantastic :-)

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Time for a trip to the GP. This can be a sign of underlying medical problems.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Stress, not sleeping right/for long enough, and over exercise can contribute to not being able to stay hard. Its also worth a visit to the doc's if it persists.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Has he had a vasectomy?

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Is he bothered by it?

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Anon Imperfect Mum

My husband sometimes is the same when he has over work, long hours, stressed or extremely tired. If it bothers either of you get it checked out by GP

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