Just putting this out there more for fb responders, i asked a question regarding moving and some of you so called ladies who responded omg seriously i thought this page was to help our sisterhood and other parents out, none of the judgemental comments took into account health work or having no family as factors to the ones who did add support thank you. Just to clarify no we never "fucked up" bond loans and payday loans put you into more debt, when you have kids and work and have a sick husband but this move is the best thing for your family and your job to better your life also to be closer to drs for my kids and hubby, maybe some of you keyboard worries who sit at home doing nothing need to look in a mirror go work go do something with your lives
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Don't worry about it mate, I just had a look at the comments and it's very obvious the people who made those comments have absolutely no idea how expensive moving can be.
I mean, the average bond in my area is $1600, two weeks in advance $800, removalist/truck fees $400, $200 for miscellaneous expenses.
That right there is your 3k so I get it!
Honestly, no one I know would jist have 3k sitting around ready to move with, it would take me months if not an entire year to save that! And because of my income, no-one would give me a 3k personal loan and not to mention the interest you pay for said loans - they're a massive rort!
Sometimes these things come out of the blue, not giving you the chance to prepare. People were quick to be critical without considering the variables in your situation.
I've also noticed a bit of a trend on these types of forums - people come up with some pretty wild conclusions for bits of information they're not given (like that you fucked up in your last rental for example). That you can't help, some people just have no sense of logic and reason.
I don't have any advice regarding your origional problem but I wish you all the best!
I find the FB commenters can be EXTREMELY nasty, I'm not sure why? If I have a particularly sensitive question, I usually ask on here, wait a couple of days, see the responses, and then delete it before it makes it to FB which you can't delete as easy. Wouldn't it be great if we were all so perfect like these keyboard warriors? Don't worry about them, they don't know you OR your life.
I didn't read the comments but I can just imagine. I commented on here in hope you could get to my comment before you got the nastiness and were disheartened. I suggested contacting Anglicare, I was only recently in your position and their help with a removalist was amazing!!!
I went to the FB page and I can't see a post that's even about relocating. I'm confused.
It's probably a week back at least, unless it was deleted.