Ok single mum’s with a super high sex drive, I need your help.
I’ve been single for a few years now, I have little to no time to ‘date’ what with kids and work.
I have had ‘friends’ over the single years, but I’ve since sent them packing for various reasons & now have no one to turn too when I’m in need. I’ve found myself getting somewhat depressed (I suffer from depression & anxiety) and somewhat bitchy when I have to go 2+ weeks without sex. I’m not able to take matters into my own hands, that amplifies the frustration tenfold.
I just don’t know what to do. I always have at least one kid with me when I’m not working, so it is like mission impossible to get to know someone right now. It’s really getting me down.
Please don’t suggest it’s not that important, we all have different drives, needs and desires & I have always been really sexual. I will not put my children in danger by allowing unknown men into my home either.
Also, if given the choice between a ‘friend’ & a genuine relationship, I would most definitely choose the relationship. I’m not looking to go out and sleep with just anyone.
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I was single for 5 years and was sex deprived too, it sends you crazy. I was happy self satisfying though so maybe what you're looking for is more than sex, you're after the intimacy too? Maybe what you need is to find a good babysitter and start dating again?
I have heaps of guys over shut the kids door and they no nothing either the guy or the kids if i didn't trust them I wouldn't do it but they are the most pleasant guys and couldn't fault them sometimes I see them often but they know what I want but I don't think I could do a relationship right now
Why do you trust them? You can't trust guys you don't know?
What do the kids think of a lot of men coming around?
She already said she shuts the kids door and they don’t know......gasp, a single mum fulfilling her sexual needs and being a responsible mother.
I was a single mum and I never did this. Get a babysitter and go out. If you're picking these guys up from dating sites or Tinder that is where pedos shop for single mums because they are easy targets.What if they drug you? Then what? Your kids are alone in a house with a stranger who could be a pedo wuth nothing more to protect them than a shut door. Well done.
I’m a single mum too, it doesn’t make you holier than god. She never said she picks up randoms from tinder or doesn’t know them, before you know the story, stop judging. Maybe she has hooked up with some male friends over the years, don’t jump to conclusions.
You were trying to imply thats the only way a single mum can have a sex life and it isn't. Would be great if she knows these guys but she said they apparently don't even know her kids are there so she cant know them too well!!! And heaps of them so you have to kind of wonder where they're coming from. I will judge if she's putting her kids in danger.
Umm no, this is the opposite of being responsible!
How well do you know the guys though? This could be vvvvv dangerous
Sorry but this doesn't sit well with me at all. This could be extremely dangerous especially with kids in the house...there's nothing wrong with having sex as a single mum but there are much safer ways to go about it.
Omg :O :(
As a single mum who is so tempted to do this as it seems like the only choice, I just cant because I think about what if he does something while in the house but more I worey about what if he turns angry or psycho... he knows my house, i have a dog in the backyard... this is just mine and my kids safe zone I feel that I cant even risk messing with that.
After being single for a while you find your own way of pleasuring yourself. It takes for experimenting, maybe some porn Haha and you will make yourself happy. Happy enough to focus on your family and finding a relationship that will fit you without going to fast coz your horny. I could never satisfy myself when I was in a relationship so I was at your stage a few years ago before I found ways to please myself. Now I've got plenty of energy to focus on my future and not worry about needing to find a man until I meet someone I click with.