hey... looking for some advice, son is nearly two and he always plays with his penis, he has started to pull it out from his nappy so obvisouly hes clothes get wet n bedding if i havent noticed. he has lots of nappy free time. is it normal?? should i stop it? ignore it?? mother in law saying to me if i dont stop it now he will grow up gay - i just ignore her opinions.
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Thats the most stupidist thing ive ever heard in my life. My nephew from a very young age (probably younger than your son )was forever playing with his willy. Sometime he would pull so hard it would even make our eyes water. He even used to put his hands down hos nappy and then pants to go to sleep. And no my nephew isnt gay (not that it would matter). So no your son isnt the only one .
OMG, what a silly woman!!!! Pretty sure her son, your husband, would have played with it non stop too.....it's what they all do!!
It actually helps stretch the foreskin which he will need to do to pull it back to clean eventually.
As he gets older just tell him it is something to do in private but at 18mo, let willy free!!! 😂😂😂
Bahaha... You obviously know your mother in law is being ludicrous so just keep ignoring her.
Kids start becoming self aware around that age, so naturally they discover their genitals and they're fun to play with lol. This is not specific to boys either, girls do it do!
Very normal, now is a good time to start discussing 'private' parts etc.
What a loony old woman 😂😂😂
She obviously has a son who isn't gay (he married you), and I'm 100% certain he played with his penis.
ALL boys play with it. From the moment they can reach it, until they die. It's 100% NORMAL.
I have two boys. It's just a constant blur of them holding their penis, getting little erections and noise.
Don't worry about what she has to say.
So long as he knows (when he's old enough) that he shouldn't do it in public, and it's something that's just for him to do in his room, let him play away.
I'd be interested to know if her hubby was 'allowed' to play with his? Maybe she shamed him or smacked him whenever he did???
How does that make him gay? I would not be talking to her anymore apart from when you need to. How silly so normal. My son used to pull it out so far it looked like a piece of spaghetti
-Normal. All boys (more so) and girls explore their bodies. Encourage private time. But honestly, what grown ass man isn't sitting on the couch, remote in one hand, dick in the other 😂😂😂
-He will be Gay, straight or whatever, nothing will contribute to him being whatever and whomever he is. If he is Gay and not accepted by his dickhead MIL and other family members, he may suffer and take longer to 'come out' or worse...
-Do not leave him in the care of MIL!!!!!
Close your eyes for a moment and imagine a world where every male every where plays with their penis. Hetero, homo, bi, trans and every other "sexual" male. Now open your eyes and consider this is the world we live in, it's dick in hand or dick on mind for most of the waking day (or is that wanking day?). In over 20 years I've never busted my partner having a go but I'm not silly enough to think he ain't pulling the pud when the opportunity "arises", and our teenage son, well I just knock and wait for him to open his own door no matter how long it takes - my delicate eyes... I've heard putting onesies on backwards might help of a night.