So 2 yrs ago i had my 2nd and last child. Sold all the baby stuff and was excited to see it go!
I recently came off the mirena as i had weight gain and wanted to lose some weight before starting pill. For 6 months weve been careful around ovulation, but the other night he didnt realise it was that time and i silently freaked out a bit. By morning I had done a complete flip and was excited to think I may be pregnant. Weve never struggled and got pregnant first go with other two so theres a good possibility but if im not do we have another go or start pill and smile that theres no pooey nappies for us? Lol
I would have to take time off work and we have 3 mortgages to pay for etc and buy new stuff. We have property but we dont have alot of spare cash.
Has anyone else thought they were done but then had second thoughts?
If I am then baby will be welcomed but do we try again?
Husband doesnt really but at same time would also love a new bub if it happened.
Am I done or not quite?
Am I done or not quite?
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Sometimes it's the romance of it. Brand new baby smell, cooing over a little mini-me you've made together, and when it's forced upon you it doesn't seem like the end of the world.
No one knows your circumstances and no one can predict the future, discuss it with your husband openly and see if a baby can fit with your plans and goals, if so decide if it's what you want.
Yes, I thought I was done and sold everything. But my youngest is nearly 8 and we have been trying for nearly two years. This is my year? I think if it doesn't happen by the end of the year I will call it quits(I will be 31in nov)
I've just had my 3rd and believe me it ALOT more work and I've got big age gaps and bub really is perfect, sleeps well, b'feeds well, happy happy boy! And I know I'm done, so much so that I got my tubes tied. If I found out tomorrow I was miraculously pregnant, I'd be over the moon! Haha, I think it's wired into us, and if you are really maternal I think it will always be the case. Talk to hubby and see how he feels, they can think WITHOUT the hormones ?
I thought I was done, I had a boy, then girl. So thought, yep! One of each and done! Sold all my baby stuff. My son was then diagnosed with autism a year ago, and while coming to terms with that, Oops pregnant. At first I was completely freaked out, but now I couldn't be happier. My kids are 7 and 5, and while this baby I'm carrying was a surprise, I think it is such a blessing.