Is it ok to want a random smooch on new years eve?

Anon Imperfect Mum

Is it ok to want a random smooch on new years eve?

Ive only recently split up with my husband of over 20 years, however i checked out of the relationship years ago & cant remember the last time I was actually touched by someone over the age of 9... Going out partying on new years eve for the first time since i was a teenager & all i can think about is "picking up"! Just a kiss at midnight, not sex, I can't wrap my head around one night stands (yet?? Haha) we have a young daughter & I'm not sure what my actual question is... Maybe just want advice or encouragement? xo

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Go for it!

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Totally, enjoy the night!

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Yesssssss do it!! Have a great night out and kiss some random stranger. A one night stand might be what you need lol

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Probably right about that lol

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I say go for it, just make sure your random smooch isn't supposed to be smooching someone else. I nearly had an incident with someone last year. She had a hand in her face quicker than you can say polony when she went to kiss my boyfriend who had just come back to me with my drink ? I've always been a fan of a New Years smooch and was a fan of one nighters until I met my OH they're a good way to get a release without actually having to be in a relationship etc.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Oh dear that would have been a bit embarrassing!!
I will definately make sure whoever it is doesn't have a girlfriend ?

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Go for it mumma! Everyone deserves a kiss on NYE and I'm sure that there will be someone else out there looking for a lady to kiss. Pucker up!

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Anon Imperfect Mum

???

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Thanks everyone for your encouragement ? makes me feel normal xo

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I wish I could go out for a smooch

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