never be afraid of leaving

Anon Imperfect Mum

never be afraid of leaving

Not so much a question but just a feeling of relief. I left my daughters father 7 months ago. I left for numerous reasons but one of the main ones was him not making decisions or having input into the next step of our lives. I now know I did make the best decision ever because he has not changed one little bit nor does he want to. He loves living life not knowing what's going to happen next!! I can't live like that and need to know what's happening or at least have a plan

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Anon Imperfect Mum

But I am afraid! It's such a big step....I admire you for your courage and strength. How did you do that final step I wonder? Well done you!

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I was afraid for a very long time. It was just getting too much and I up and left whilst he was out

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Anon Imperfect Mum

How was the fallout from that? Did you leave him a note and tell him where you were going? I really admire your courage and hope I get some one day if ot comes to that. Stay isnt nice gut leaving is hard and yucky. Thanks for responding. B

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I had told him through a text message that I was leaving, he was 6 hours away so I knew I was safe.. I then went back and packed the rest of my stuff whilst he was at work

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Theres no stability in an unpredictable lifestyle. Its immature. Good job!

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Theres no stability in an unpredictable lifestyle. Its immature. Good job!

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