So I have just discovered I am pregnant to my abusive ex. And I have fallen pregnant while we were separated. Yes I realise I was stupid for sleeping with him but we were suppose to be working things out and getting back together, after I have found out which I had informed him ive discovered that he is still seeing the woman that he cheated on me with and is now denying this baby is his and when I asked him to help with an abortion as I already have three children he refuses. I can't afford an abortion so I may have to have this child but my family will disown me because of this and I'll be all on my own with absolutely no help emotionally or mentally. I have no idea what to do but I don't think it is OK for a child to grow up in this situation especially since he has nothing to do with our daughter. Please help.
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Raising a child will cost a thousand times more than an abortion!
Neither of you want this baby, you will only have it because you cant afford a termination-not a good reason to have another.
Kick him to the curb, and do not take his lying cheating ass back.
Raise the $400 for an abortion. Borrow if u have to or apply for a loan from centrelink if you are on benefits or even sell some clothes or something!
Centerlink used ti give out $500 advance payment. I dont know if they still do, but you could try that.
Get a Centrelink advance payment. If you can't afford an abortion a baby is much much dearer!
i took out an advance of $1000 last week to pay for a medical procedure for my son.
You can do it online and they pay the advance with your next payment.
Speak to your doctor about termination options and let them know you are needing financial assistance.