Trigger alert. Please ask anonymously
If you sexual abused as a child by a family member and although the family did find out and put a stop to it. ( no police action was taken)
Now as an adult found the abuser on social media living no more than 30 mins away, and in a relationship with a single mum for the last few years... what would you do?
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As a victim of childhood sexual abuse, now being an adult, I myself would tell the mother.
Yep you need to tell the mother ASAP. Not telling and possibly allowing this man to abuse her child would be terrible. Knowing bad things are being done and not doing anything about it is just as bad as the person doing the bad things. And let's be honest, if he abused you as a child those people cannot control themselves, 99% chance he'd still be doing it
Absolutely tell her, what she does with the information is up to her.
Let police know and call childrens services
first and for most its time to tell your family, talk to the police about everything and if you can have charges laid against him let the mother know if she doesn't want to believe you if he has any distinguishing makes that are hidden you get my drift name then. Please get the closer I can never have .