What would you think of your partner if you found that he had joined a dating site? He has not paid for access to any feature and does not appear to have had any activity on the site since. Just curious as to what others think or how to even deal or approach it from here. Instinct is telling me to keep my eyes peeled!
#been together over 10 years, 2 kids. I found this out last week, appears to have signed up about a month ago.
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Did he join while you two were together or could it be he joined before he got with you and he just forgot about it?
Definitely only recently. I access his emails (with his knowledge) to check payslips for work which is were I noticed the sign up confirmation email.
If he has joined since you got together I'd be getting rid of him fast!
You don't need to pay to get contacts from women and he is basically saying he us available to cheat.
It's disrespectful to you AND to the genuine women on the dating site looking for love.
It's an asshole thing to do all round.
If he tells you it was because he was bored don't buy that. If you are bored you get a hobby. You join a dating site to get sex, sexting or phone sex.
Honestly having been cheated on, if i was sure he did it, i would leave. I dont have time for all the i wasnt sure then i am now bullshit. If hes not sure he leaves, not cheats on you. What you have there is a cheater. Having also been in a long term relationship with a completely faithful man before, i took for granted that all men are like this. Theyre not. Wait and keep your eyes peeled if you want i think thats a shit relationship for you anyway.
Wow. Thats so awful. I class that as cheating. Regardless of whether he has had activity on there or not, his intentions when he signed up are quite clear.