Do any of you ladies here sometimes just want to take a crowbar to your husband/ partner's face?? Well I do right this very second...my husband and I have been at each other like cats and dogs for literally no reason...I don't even know why anymore...for about 2 hours now and it's driving me nuts! He just walked off to bed as I type, thank god!...peace, finally....
Iv got my period atm and my emotions are out of control around that time so I'm extra sensitive and can become very irritated over the smallest things...I can have a sharp tongue and lash out pretty easily if (for what it seems to be) provoked and or harassed...otherwise I'm pretty good and carry on my day as normal.
But the one person who gets me so wild, every time, without fail, is, bingo you guessed it, my dear beloved....He is like a dog with a bone or bull at a gate about everything all the time...and I am too but to be honest, over the years I have learned not to care as much and have the ability to tolerate more and let things go...of cause that all goes out the window when the river runs red and it's so so terribly draining... Ha! He is like me when I'm on my period but all the time!...big baby...
It's not like I don't tell him Aunty flow has come for the week, he knows all too well that I'm extra sensitive and not to push my buttons. I tell him to go away, leave me alone, I've got my period and he is making things worse by keeping at me etc etc
He knows I become irrational and unreasonable during this time so there is no point in carring on like a pork chop but for some unknown reason he just doesn't get it, he just can't be the grown up and back off...it's hard going when you feel nutty, uber sensitive, irrational, in pain, agitated and than have to be the reasonable, understanding, sensible one when an issue occurs as well? Gee, cut the woman some slack and back off for heavens sack I say! But no...
We see a councillor once a week for the past 6 months which is great! (Took five years to convince him that we need it...why are men like that?0.0) and yes tonight will be brought up in session...I just need to vent on here before I go loco even more so thanks for reading me out!
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Haha so it's not just me.
I shouldn't say it but sometimes even just him looking at me annoys me, The way he talks, the way he chews, Even him just sitting on the couch I feel like punching him in the face
Other times I can't wait to spend time with him
It happens. ??
I pray for my husband to just disappear, or die, one day!
But there's a lot more to it than just my periods, this man has irreparably damaged my life over 23yrs & 2-3 separations, his selfishness & irresponsibility & lies & manipulation has driven me nuts but I can't seem to work out what to do. I now believe he has high-functioning Aspergers, cos is charming to others but does no friendship follow-up, lacks empathy about ppl but will get in a rage or sadness about animal abuse, & at home he gives me the silent treatment or the vindictive 'payback' treatment if & when he decides it's due, he's verbally & emotionally abusive, he controls the money & has stolen from me & from our kids' pocket money ... & then at times he can seem so in love with me & romantic etc .... It screws me up!!