Trying to conceive

Anon Imperfect Mum

Trying to conceive

Hello mummy's!!
Needing some support, positive stories and ideas!!! I've been ttc coming up to 12 months now, and nothing's happening!! I'm quite young, (20) and struggling to cope with the fact that it hasn't happened yet!!! I have PCOS, but have managed to regulate my cycles (sorry for tmi). I am crying my self to sleep, I have no idea what's wrong with me or my body! What have I done for everyone around me to fall pregnant and I'm struggling like crazy!!!! Everyone around me keeps asking if I'm pregnant yet, and it breaks my heart when I have to say no!!! I've lost weight and changed my lifestyle but still nothing!!!

This is more like getting it off my chest, so I appreciate all you mums taking the time to indulge in my problems!!! Please no negative comments, I'm just wanting to hear positive stories about how there is still hope for me!!!

Lots of love
Xx

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Have you spoken to your GP?
Take a breath, you have time on your side. But start speaking to your GP about wether it's time to step things up.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Oh Hun, i know it is hard not to, but they say the way to fall pregnant is to not try so much. I know i know, i have been TTC for 6 months and it is heartbreaking when every month it doesn't happen. My husbnad blames himself and i blame myself. After 12 months doctors are more willing to help, go and see your GP and hopefully they can help. x

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Nicole Turner

I also have PCOS and have been trying to convince for over 10 years. There are a lot of fantastic sites and support groups around. I recently found PCOS Australia on Facebook and there is a lot of advice and support on there. My biggest advice is be as informed as you can, ask questions when you don't understand things, don't let your drs talk you out of having the tests you request and find a good dr who understands PCOS. There are still options and help out there for you. Big hugs to you and all the best for your journey.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I had a son when i was just 19 my partner and i started ttc when he was 8months old for number too after 12 months of nothing i decided to go to the doctors to see what was wrong i was diagnosed with pcos and was told i wouldnt concieve on my own so my doc sent a referal to a doctor who took 6months to turn around and say they cant help me so i started saving for fertility i save for 12 months because going to a fertility clinic when we started having tests done. Once he was happy with what he knew he started me on some medications to get me to ovulate as i was getting my period every month but i was not ovulating!. U can get a period without having released an egg. So i started he medications which only cost me $45 a cycle and on my 3rd month of thesr meds i concieved i was 22 when i concieved 23 and a half now and 4 weeks off having the baby that took me 3years to concieve. I think ur best bet would be to see fertility specialist incase ur nt ovulating even though u are getting a period

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I had a son when i was just 19 my partner and i started ttc when he was 8months old for number too after 12 months of nothing i decided to go to the doctors to see what was wrong i was diagnosed with pcos and was told i wouldnt concieve on my own so my doc sent a referal to a doctor who took 6months to turn around and say they cant help me so i started saving for fertility i save for 12 months because going to a fertility clinic when we started having tests done. Once he was happy with what he knew he started me on some medications to get me to ovulate as i was getting my period every month but i was not ovulating!. U can get a period without having released an egg. So i started he medications which only cost me $45 a cycle and on my 3rd month of thesr meds i concieved i was 22 when i concieved 23 and a half now and 4 weeks off having the baby that took me 3years to concieve. I think ur best bet would be to see fertility specialist incase ur nt ovulating even though u are getting a period

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