Hey ladies,
My ex and i broke up last year in october he was emotionally abusive and it ended in dv. He had been coming over to my new place to see our daughter and he hit me again last week. I called the police. Now i have his mother saying i did the wrong thing by calling them and making out i am in the wrong. He has had constant mental health issues and cant hold a job, he doesnt pay child support or even ask about our daughter. That doesnt bother me. My question is how do i get his family to back off? Not sure what i should do i have called womens legal services and waiting for my appointment to try and sort out custody details. I am just lost and scared for myself and my daughter as his family is unpredictable and many of them on drugs. How do i protect us from these toxic people?
Sorry for the rant just feeling helpless ?
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Firstly no more visits at your place. I think he has shown he is not safe to be around under any circumstances.
Don't respond to his family at all. You do not need to have contact with them at all. If they show up to your place unannounced, lock your doors and tell them to leave, call the police.
If they have made any threats talk to the police. Talk to the police anyway as they are basically committing witness intimidation.
Thank you for your reply, i have told police he is not to come to my home anymore ?
Can you go 'no contact' or 'grey rock' sorry I am also going through similiar but havnt left about to. Mine is doing the 'flying monkeys' method... you can google all of 'these words'
Goodluck xx
Thank you so much, the gray rock article really helped me xx