Hi mummies,
I have a 5 year old son who has started kindy this year.
He seems to have settled in nicely social wise but he's having some major behaviour issues. He refuses to follow the teachers instructions and it's to the point of almost being suspended.
He does need constant attention and he does have a fair few issues at home too.
I feel like I'm saying he's name constantly, he will argue with me till the point of me breaking down and crying and just giving in and walking away.
I have an appointment with the school tomorrow about he's behaviour and I have booked a doctors appointment to get a referral for a peadiatrican.
I always said that if he had a disorder I would not treat it but it's affecting him,myself and he's fellow class members as well as the teacher.
I'm from newcastle nsw would anyone be able to suggest a great peadiatrican in the area. Has any other mums had a similar experience and what was the outcome?
Thanks ?
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He may have reasons or feelings that he doesn't know how to express with words. Don't feel bad for making the best decision for your son even if it goes against what you always said.
Sometimes a certain situation or experience changes your outlook or opinion. The more we learn the more we can make an educated decision. I'm sure the paediatrician will have some great insight.
Poor little man probably needs some help to express himself and getting treated for a condition is way less destructive then being in continuous combat with the adults in his life.
Good luck! :)
I think it's easy to say if my child had x,y or z I would/wouldn't do... Until you have a child with a disorder and truly understand the true depth of that disorder.
A good parent changes there mind when they receive more information.
I never wanted to treat my sons condition with medication (rare cyclical disorder). Oh my was I niave to how bad my sons condition could get. His quality of life became extremely poor. I had to change my mind. It wasn't fair to him not to treat him. I was a good parent because I recognised when I was wrong and moved forward. My son is blossoming now.