Got to have a growl....hasnt been even $1 of child support since January and he literally told my 14 yo that there won't be any money until the kids agree to see him again. Meanwhile he has told all his family that it is all my fault he hasn't seen the kids. He WAS seeing the kids twice a year and phone call every week until he went to prison for perving on his step daughter with hidden camera's.
Our daughters are the SAME AGE.
In January all payments stopped not even the $50 a month. Pretty sure that is when he strated working and was ditched off newstart the $10 last payment seemed to indicate that transition period between not having any income and the first weeks wage not quite being enough to dump him off it entirely.
He hasn't reported his income changes to CSA even while he was on newstart they were still going by his most recent tax returns.....at this point he owes over $9k in arrears....while I am pretty confident I will be able to replace my car come tax time...AND my oven and my stove....
Its still a massive pain in the butt with utilities going up every six months the younger heading into high school next year.....and trying to pay each terms music lesson fee's.....
I am getting very very very very very tired of just barely keeping us afloat and jumping through numerous hoops to keep us there.
You know how you just keep telling yourself I jut have to get past this obstacle and we'll be right....then the next and the next and the next and the next....been telling myself this for 2 decades....and we have made progress don't get me wrong there is quantifiable progress....but does all shit absolutely HAVE to be pushed up hill?
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