This isn't a question but kind of a vent..
I've been seeing so many posts about IM's judging themselves, second guessing themselves and most heartbreaking lacking their own self love.
We are women and we are ALL beautiful.
Beauty comes from being YOU, not in a jar of cover up, or at a gym. Your Beauty isn't measured by your dress size, or your "so called friends" (real friends don't see your body they see your soul)
your beauty isn't judged by your partners hurtful words.
You beauty is measured by your capacity to love, your beauty is judged by your heart, if you don't love yourself you cannot be the best version of YOU!
You need to stop giving others your power!
Remember your strength!
Regain the control you have within!
Take back your power!!!
Stop judging yourselves!
Stop judging yourselves!
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Parenthood Guilt
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Well said
I think it's time we stopped focusing on how we look and start appreciating our bodies for what they can do.
If we continue to tie our self esteem and our daughters self esteems up in there appearances we are setting ourselves up for a huge fall at some point in our lives.
Nobody, just nobody is immune to some serious changes to there body, wether due to aging, bearing children or accident/surgery etc.
Our daughters and nieces are watching us, if we are hating our bodies they pick up on those messages.