I have found out my ex husband is on ice. We have 3 children together agrd between 7 and 12. He is meant to have the children every second week end. I don't think he will ever do anything to the children but reading into what ice does to people it had caused me great concern with the children going to him. I would never forgive myself if anything was to happen. Has anyone else been in this situation or anyone have advice on what they would do about allowing the children to spend time overnight with him.
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I would not be allowing unsupervised contact. Ice makes people do things they would never ever consider normally.
Contact child protection in your state for further advice and if you have court orders I'd seek legal advice too.
Don't allow access! You are totally right.
I would speak to Docs and a lawyer no way would i send my children to a house were there are drugs, his rights become not considered if he is taking drugs, protect your children better then saying i should of if he hurts them
I would be refusing him access to them and only allowing supervises visits. Ice changes people and makes them unpredictable there's no way I'd allow my children to be alone with a user if my life depended on it. I've read some baaaad stories about what parents have done to their kids while under the influence of it! Horrible stuff. Youre doing what's right for your kids by this and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.