Hi Ladies,
I have just found out I am pregnant with baby number 2 mind you I have been on the pill and taken all precautions to not fall pregnant I have been with my partner for 3 years and have a child to a previous relationship.
but were I am stuck is I have polycystic ovaries and being on the pill the doctor said I have fallen pregnant in a 1% chance and its very rare and my partner doesn't want it and saying we aren't ready but doctors saying I might not get another chance so im so confused because I don't think I can just terminate but don't want to make him have something he isn't ready for im so scared and confused on what to do as he wants me to terminate now and im just not ready and don't want to regret or make him leave.
would love some advise or if someone has been in the same place as me :(
Help I'm Pregnant!!
Help I'm Pregnant!!
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Honestly you both need to talk this through with a counsellor
My best friend had an abortion coz her man was not 'ready' for a baby. He broke up with her not long after and the abortion haunts her still. She said she would have chosen to keep the baby if she'd known he would leave her. She didn't want it he abortion - she did it for him.
Don't make your decision for him. You will regret it if you can't fall pregnant later. And keep in mind that you are talking about the life of your baby - by 5 weeks it has a heartbeat. At conception it has its own DNA. It's too late now to avoid starting a family - you already have.
Congratulations on your miracle pregnancy!