Advice please!
Not sure what to I'm a happy mother of 4, 6-14 years of age, all with my partner of 18 years, I've just found out I'm pregnant with number 5 I were using contraception but this has obviously failed. I thought I were done having kids all are in school, nappy changing done gone from dealing with babies and learning to deal with teenages. My partner really dose not want this baby I have had an abortion in the past and regret it constantly, not sure if I can do it again, I'm feeling lost their at so many con's in this situation and I'm sure they out weigh the pro's. I thought I'd done everything to prevent this from happening and now this has failed I don't know what to do I have so many mixed feelings. I feel I want to keep it, but I worry about the strain on our relationship, the effect it will have on our other kids. I know I can do it but do I want to feeling so lost right now...
Pregnant!!
Pregnant!!
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Everyone is different. We planned our first, adopted our second then.... After having years of infertility and failed IVF transfers and a miscarriage we got our third child only to discover a fourth came along by surprise I'm a huge believer in babies come when they want to. No one can tell what to do but if you can't live with your decision then follow your gut feeling as it's normally the right one. X
Babies are a blessing! Please don't take what I'm about to write as an attack because that's certainly not my intention (it may come out wrong).
I've seen a lot of posts like this lately and every time I read one I'm on the verge of tears. My husband and I have been trying for baby #2 for an extremely long time now and it's not happening for us.
If 1 termination still messes with you... Imagine what 2 will do!
Just think about it... Think about it properly! Good luck xxoo