Hi There,
We currently have two beautiful young boys, who I love dearly.. However we are currently in discussions about baby # 3.. I really want another baby however hubby is not all that keen.. I understand his reasoning as it would be a big financial strain and I get quite sick when I am pregnant (diabetes, pre eclampsia & throwing up all pregnancy) but I feel that I'm not finished.. I always pictured myself with a big family and I just feel if we are finished I will resent him and the decision forever.. We have also suffered from 3 miscarriages which is also a factor as our hearts were broken each time..
Has anyone else been in this situation?? If so how did you deal with it?? Please no nasty comments as husband is the best husband / father ever..
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I didn't have another baby, for some of the reasons hubby mentioned and some other reasons of my own.
There comes a time where I accepted that I had to put the needs of my current family ahead of my imagined family. I had to realise that I just won't get everything I imagined in life. Life brings what it brings and trying to force the world to my imagined perfect life, doesn't work. So you accept it and move on.