Unlawful Carnal Knowledge Resulting In Pregnancy – PART TWO

Anon Imperfect Mum

Unlawful Carnal Knowledge Resulting In Pregnancy – PART TWO

Hi again,
I just wanted to give a quick update and thank everyone for their comments relating to my previous post. I do have so many more questions but I need time to think about which ones are appropriate to post here. So I haven’t included them in this post.
I have tackled the issue with my psychologist and brought up some of the things I have experienced and some questions I have had and it has lifted a massive weight off my shoulders. Although she can’t answer my questions for me she is helping me to answer some of them for myself.
There was a comment on my previous post “…..but it looks like maybe his "grooming" hasn't been banished yet, and he still has a hold on you?”
After reading it I cried and cried and cried… not because the comment was hurtful but because I knew that it was so true! I realized that after all this time he was still there pulling the strings and he was in control. Not me like I thought. Now a big Thank you to the lady that made that comment because it really opened my eyes.
I have cut off all contact – Skype, Text, Phone Calls, Facebook, etc.
I am in control and I won’t give him back that power.
Although there are so many other struggles I still need to address, I have finally started tackling the big ones and I feel like I couldn’t have started this journey without the comments of support and advice from everyone so THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU. It’s really been a big push in the right direction.

Posted in:  Life Lessons, Relationships & Marriage, Mental Health, Self Care, Pregnancy

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I remember your original post.
I didn't comment, because I didn't have the words to offer you the adbice you needed, but I'm glad you got the support you needed.
I hope your psychologist continues to bring you foward, and maybe a lawyer can answer the rest of your questions.
You're doing an amazing job.
Good luck, and never give up on yourself xo

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I remember this post. I'm glad you've gone no contact and taken your power back, for you and your child.

Best of luck for your future.

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