Feeling lost

Anon Imperfect Mum

Feeling lost

I've found out I'm pregnant and torn with what to do I've left my partner and I don't know what to do or what to think?
I work full time have my one place
What would you do ?

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I think this depends a lot on my history with the ex, for me. I had a fairly 'safe' rekationship with my ex and I was mentally and physically very strong, so it was an easy decision to continue the pregnancy. Maybe if my my ex was one of those scary people who could make my life hell I'd be considering the other option.

If for some strange reason I found myself pregnant today, I would abort without a doubt because I don't feel I have the emotional resources to offer a child.

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Sandy Hall

Ohh what a difficult decision and a very personal one. I'd personally have the baby but I certainly wouldn't judge anyone if they chose not to. As wonderful as they are, they are also a lot of hard work emotionally and physically and financially. I'm sorry I can't be more helpful. Sending you strength with whatever decision you make x

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Anon Imperfect Mum

From my experience if your young like i am and you still wanna live your life with no responsibility get rid of it.

I have a 2 then had an abortion (best thing i ever did the father was a physco) said to me infront of my son you could kill my kid but you couldnt kill his.. Now ive met an amazing man who we just had a baby..

If you choose to abort my advice would be not to tell the father.. what someone doesnt know wont hurt them.

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